Shamed

*McGlinchey Stafford Associate Professor of Law, Tulane Law School. U.C. Berkeley School of Law, J.D. 2006; Cornell University, A.B. 2003. I would like to thank the faculties of The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law, Tulane Law School, Southwestern Law School, the University of Maryland Carey School of Law, and Cornell Law School for allowing me to workshop this paper in one form or another. I got very helpful comments from audience members after presenting at the “Critical Views of the Criminal System” panel at CrimFest 2023 for which I am grateful. I would also like to especially thank Ann Lipton, Valena Beety, Cynthia Godsoe, Bennett Capers, Janice Nadler, Leigh Goodmark, Sarah Lorr, Maneka Sinha, Kristen Underhill, Sandra Babcock, and Brian Frye for their incisive feedback that they each offered at different stages of the evolution of this piece.Show More

Victims of rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse have long had to contend with victim blaming and victim shaming. While legal scholars have had fruitful and theoretically engaging debates regarding the validity and merits of shaming sanctions and shaming criminal defendants, there has been precious little written about the shame that victims face, let alone a recognition that their interaction with shame as both a social force and an emotion is multidimensional. In a previous piece titled “Ruined,” I examined the language judges use during sentencing hearings in sexual assault cases to describe victims, such as pronouncing them “broken,” “ruined,” or “destroyed.” This Article serves as a continuation of the inquiry I started in “Ruined” by expanding in focus. It seeks to differentiate between the related concepts of shame and stigma and explain why shaming of rape victims is so common. I propose a novel typology with which to examine a rape victim’s experience and separate the shame that victims are made to feel by the criminal adjudicative process, the shame victims are supposed to perform, and the shame victims are supposed to feel into discrete components, revealing that shame in relation to such victims is multilayered and much more complex than legal scholarship has made it out to be. Even outside of the law of rape and sexual assault, this typology has potential broader applicability in criminal law and other fields of legal practice.

I share my own experiences with each of these manifestations of shame to demonstrate the usefulness of my new typology. I also relate how I have felt ashamed to come forward with my story as a practicing attorney as well as my experiences of being shamed in the legal academy. I conclude, however, with a note of optimism, reflecting on the positive things to have come with my very public self-disclosure of being a rape and sexual abuse victim and hoping to encourage others to employ personal narrative and auto-ethnographic methods in their own scholarship, as well.

Introduction

In the Getty Center in the Brentwood neighborhood of Los Angeles hangs a depiction of Lucretia painted by Italian Baroque painter Artemisia Gentileschi sometime around 1627.¹ 1.Artemisia Gentileschi, Lucretia, c. 1627, oil on canvas, 92.9 × 72.7 cm, Getty Center, https://www.getty.edu/art/collection/object/109Q8G [https://perma.cc/BT2Q-VJQR].Show MoreAs depicted by Gentileschi, Lucretia is obviously a noblewoman of some sort. She wears pearls not just as earrings but strung throughout her hair. Her shoulders are draped in a diaphanous, light white fabric that appears to be tulle. She gazes to the upper right corner of the frame with a plaintive look on her face. In her right hand, she holds a dagger with a silver blade. The end of the dagger’s hilt appears to be gold, ending in the small figure of an animal, maybe a rabbit. She points the dagger to her chest. According to legend, Lucretia, the faithful wife of Lucius Tarquinius Collatinus, was raped by Sextus Tarquinius, the son of the King of Rome.² 2.Lucretia, Getty, https://www.getty.edu/art/collection/object/109Q8G [https://perma.cc/BT‌2Q-VJQR] (last visited Nov. 11, 2024).Show MoreBefore stabbing herself to death, she “called on her father and her husband [to exact] vengeance” for this wrong.³ 3.Id.Show MoreThe legend goes that anger over Lucretia’s death led to the fall of the Roman monarchy and the establishment of the Roman Republic.⁴ 4.Virginia Gorlinski, Lucretia, Encyc. Britannica, https://www.britannica.com/topic/Lucreti‌a-ancient-Roman-heroine [https://perma.cc/TJE9-VXGN] (last visited Nov. 11, 2024).Show More

Artemisia Gentileschi, Lucretia (c. 1627)

There have been many depictions of Lucretia over many hundreds of years.⁵ 5.See Natasha H. Arora, Lucretia’s Many Bodies Through the Ages, Art & Object (Dec. 15, 2022), https://www.artandobject.com/news/lucretias-many-bodies-through-ages [https://per‌ma.cc/BS2X-LKTW] (discussing various artistic depictions of Lucretia).Show MoreYet this depiction of her by Gentileschi is the one that I, as a rape victim, have always found most relatable. It focuses exclusively on Lucretia and her anguish rather than on the political ramifications of her death. Perhaps this empathy with Lucretia’s plight makes sense on the part of the artist, given that Gentileschi was raped by the artist Agostino Tassi when she was seventeen.⁶ 6.Mary O’Neill, Artemisia’s Moment, Smithsonian Mag. (May 2002), https://www.smithso‌nianmag.com/arts-culture/artemisias-moment-62150147/ [https://perma.cc/H6B8-GQRV].Show MoreWhile Tassi initially promised to marry Gentileschi, he later refused, leading Gentileschi to report what happened to her father, Orazio.⁷ 7.Joseph Wm. Slap, Artemisia Gentileschi: Further Notes, 42 Am. Imago 335, 337 (1985).Show MoreAt the time, “rape was viewed more as a crime against a family’s honor than as a violation of a woman,” and it was Orazio, rather than Gentileschi herself, who pressed charges against Tassi.⁸ 8.O’Neill, supra note 6.Show MoreThe trial took more than half a year.⁹ 9.Elizabeth S. Cohen, The Trials of Artemisia Gentileschi: A Rape as History, 31 Sixteenth Century J.47, 49 (2000). This does not mean, however, that it was a trial in the sense with which we would be familiar today. Rather, “[t]he trial dragged on through seven months of intermittent interrogations and legal maneuvers. During at least the first six weeks, there continued private negotiations toward a settlement ending in marriage.” Id.Show MoreGentileschi testified at the trial while tortured, purportedly to assure the truthfulness of her testimony.¹⁰ 10.O’Neill, supra note 6.Show MoreAs she was put to thumbscrews, she exclaimed to Tassi, “This is the ring you give me, and these are your promises[!]”¹¹ 11.Slap, supra note 7, at 337 (quoting Rudolf Wittkower & Margot Wittkower, Born Under Saturn: The Character and Conduct of Artists 162 (1963)).Show More

Perhaps to today’s reader, both stories—Lucretia’s and Gentileschi’s—sound remote and archaic. There is, however, a long association between those attempting suicide and those reporting histories of sexual assault.¹² 12.Jonathan R.T. Davidson, Dana C. Hughes, Linda K. George & Dan G. Blazer, The Association of Sexual Assault and Attempted Suicide Within the Community, 53 Archives Gen. Psychiatry 550, 550 (1996).Show MoreBy one estimate, rape victims are 4.1 times more likely to contemplate suicide and are 13 times more likely to attempt suicide compared to non-victims.¹³ 13.Dean G. Kilpatrick, Christine N. Edmunds & Anne Seymour, Nat’l Victim Ctr. & Crime Victims Rsch. & Treatment Ctr., Rape in America: A Report to the Nation 7 (1992).Show MoreMoreover, while victims no longer face physical torture at trial, they may still be tormented in other ways. For example, if victims do not want to testify, they can be threatened with jail time until they do.¹⁴ 14.See Sexual Assault Kit Initiative & RTI Int’l, “Next-Level” Compulsion of Victim Testimony in Crimes of Sexual Violence Against Adults: Prosecutorial Considerations Before Using Bench Warrants/Body Attachments and Material Witness Warrants 2–3 (2022), https://sakitta.org/toolkit/docs/14451SAKINextLevelComplsnVctmTstmny.pdf [https://perm‌a.cc/T5ZT-Z8JR] (discussing the challenges victims of sexual assault may face if held in contempt for not complying with an order to testify).Show MoreThose that do testify risk being discredited or degraded and may have their experiences essentialized.¹⁵ 15.See infra Part II.Show More

Victims of sexual assault continue to be shamed in a multitude of ways today. This Article introduces a typology of shame to consider when thinking about how victims are treated by the legal system and subjected to shaming through those mechanisms: the shame that victims feel or are made to feel by both investigations and proceedings in court, the shame that victims are supposed to perform for others, and the shame that victims are supposed to feel.

The title of my previous article addressing the language used by judges during sentencing in sexual assault cases is “Ruined.”¹⁶ 16.Maybell Romero, “Ruined,” 111 Geo. L.J. 237 (2022).Show MoreThe reason there are quotation marks around that title is the basis for the argument of the paper itself; while judges may wish to pronounce rape victims “ruined,” it is the victims themselves who should be allowed to determine and pronounce their own fate.¹⁷ 17.See generally id. (arguing that a judge’s pronouncement of a victim as “ruined” is stigmatizing and perpetuates myths about victimhood).Show MoreBut with the title of this paper, Shamed, I dispense with those quotation marks, not because victims should be ashamed of the harm that has been done to them, but because attempts to shame victims are real. They are pervasive. And they are harmful, even when such attempts are not immediately apparent. Shaming of sexual assault victims exists in police investigations, courtrooms, interpersonal relationships, and even within written laws. Not only have I been shamed, but I have shamed others in the course of prosecuting sexual assault cases. As Robert Cover has explained, “interpretive act[s]” on the part of judges are themselves “violent deed[s]” that both “authorize[] and legitim[ize]” acts of violence.¹⁸ 18.See Robert M. Cover, Violence and the Word, 95 Yale L.J. 1601, 1614 (1986).Show MoreLegal interpretation “depends upon the social practice of violence” to be effective.¹⁹ 19.Id. at 1613.Show More

This Article considers the existence of shame and its operationalization in the law in relation to rape and sexual assault. Shame itself is its own social sanction, and shaming is its own social practice. While judges and perhaps prosecutors attempt to use shame against sexual offenders as a legal sanction, shame is, primarily, a social sanction. Shame itself is about enforcing social norms, and so many of those norms enshrined in the law and larger culture are harmful and regressive when it comes to sexual assault.

I intend to consider shame—the concept and its operation—more closely in this Article at different junctures in the law and in society than I considered in “Ruined.” While other scholarship has also examined shame as well as shaming sanctions, this Article is unique in relating many of my own experiences of being shamed and wielding shame as a child, as a young female prosecutor, and especially, as a law professor and legal scholar. From this perspective, I also examine different forms of sexual assault shaming in legal professional spheres.

At multiple prosecution trainings early in my career, I and everyone else in the audience were informed that people (usually, specifically women) who have gone through sexual assault should never work on sexual assault cases because they would be too “biased” and would lack the objectivity to do the job well—that somehow victims of sexual assault would be overtaken by their emotions to the point of rendering them ineffective.²⁰ 20.When using the word “ineffective,” I mean it in a much more general sense, rather than as a specific reference to ineffective assistance of counsel as discussed in Strickland v. Washington, 466 U.S. 668 (1984), and its progeny.Show MoreIn an environment like that one, I certainly did not feel free to come forward with my story for fear that colleagues, law enforcement officers with whom I had to work, and maybe even other victims would judge me as not professionally competent to work on rape and sexual assault cases. When Kim Foxx, former Cook County, Illinois, State’s Attorney (the equivalent office of an elected District Attorney), came forward as a victim of child sexual abuse²¹ 21.Carol Felsenthal, Kim Foxx Wants to Tell You a Story, Chi. Mag. (Dec. 10, 2018, 12:22 PM), https://www.chicagomag.com/chicago-magazine/january-2019/kim-foxx-wants-t‌o-tell-you-a-story/ [https://perma.cc/ZGE7-JDKH].Show Moreand rape as a college student,²² 22.Carol Thompson & Dorothy Tucker, Kim Foxx Calls Findings Showing as Many as 1 in 3 Black Women in 2022 Were Victims of Crime “Jarring,” CBS News (Dec. 4, 2023, 10:27 PM), https://www.cbsnews.com/chicago/news/kimberly-foxx-findings-black-women-c‌rime-jarring/ [https://perma.cc/V25P-JVH2].Show More her objectivity and professional competency were privately questioned in a way unlikely to have happened if she had been the victim of a less stigmatized crime like burglary. Coming forward as a victim of sexual assault seems to flout many long-established trappings of respectability in the legal profession.

I have also experienced this professional shaming to some extent after writing, publishing, and presenting my recent article, “Ruined.” While the vast majority of the feedback that I have received has been encouraging and substantive, some of it has been very similar to what I heard as a prosecutor working on sexual assault cases. For example, I have had people praise my article, then abruptly ask if it was embarrassing to have it appear online or in print. I had a fellow law professor at a regional workshop critique the work on grounds that he felt he could not critique it at all, contending that I had rendered my arguments unassailable from normal inquiry because I had shared my story. In that sense, he performed a very similar maneuver to that which I heard in prosecution trainings and to that which Kim Foxx has faced—arguing that my experience has somehow rendered me unable to do my job well or even properly, and that it might have been better if I had never talked about it at all. Yet another couple of professors have told me that they refused to read the piece because they found the premise of another law professor sharing such a story too “uncomfortable.”

Law professors do not like being uncomfortable. Sure, they may enjoy being intellectually challenged; they may even enjoy arguing with each other over philosophical differences, interpretive differences, or ideological conflicts generally. Some of us may even enjoy debating the nature of legal scholarship—what it is, what it can be, and what it should be. But we do not like being uncomfortable, which is how I think much of my recent scholarship makes people feel. It is not meant to be enjoyable or easy, but rather to embrace the tradition of Martha Fineman and her approach to having “uncomfortable conversations.”²³ 23.Martha Albertson Fineman, Introduction: Feminist and Queer Legal Theory, in Feminist and Queer Legal Theory: Intimate Encounters, Uncomfortable Conversations 1, 1 (Martha Albertson Fineman, Jack E. Jackson & Adam P. Romero eds., 2009).Show MoreThis is the sort of discomfort that has led some law professors to stop teaching rape and sexual assault law in their first-year criminal law courses.²⁴ 24.Jeannie Suk Gersen, The Trouble with Teaching Rape Law, New Yorker (Dec. 15, 2014), https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/trouble-teaching-rape-law.Show MoreThese uncomfortable conversations, however, need to be had, and I think by not having them, we do our students, the legal profession, and even ourselves a great disservice.

Part I of this Article starts by defining (or attempting to define) shame while distinguishing it from the related concept of stigma. It answers questions regarding why people engage in shaming victims, specifically those who have been raped or sexually assaulted. It also presents historical examples of shaming to demonstrate that the shame that is heaped upon victims today is of a long historical, cultural, and legal lineage. Not only does Part I explore examples of this shaming in the law, but it also offers a sampling of examples from literature, art, and popular culture to show just how pervasive this phenomenon is. Part II examines current ways that victims are shamed specifically by the criminal legal system, introducing a typology of shame and shaming that is the first of its kind in legal scholarship. Part III examines shaming in professional settings, particularly in the legal profession and in legal academia. It reflects on my experiences writing and publishing “Ruined” and scrutinizes what certain pedagogical choices in the criminal law classroom communicate to students. In that sense, it looks at shame in the larger legal and law school cultural environment. The Article closes by advocating for having the uncomfortable conversations that can push back against the shaming with which I and this Article take issue.

1.  Artemisia Gentileschi, Lucretia, c. 1627, oil on canvas, 92.9 × 72.7 cm, Getty Center, https://www.getty.edu/art/collection/object/109Q8G [https://perma.cc/BT2Q-VJQR]. ↑
2.  Lucretia, Getty, https://www.getty.edu/art/collection/object/109Q8G [https://perma.cc/BT‌2Q-VJQR] (last visited Nov. 11, 2024). ↑
3.  Id. ↑
4.  Virginia Gorlinski, Lucretia, Encyc. Britannica, https://www.britannica.com/topic/Lucreti‌a-ancient-Roman-heroine [https://perma.cc/TJE9-VXGN] (last visited Nov. 11, 2024). ↑
5.  See Natasha H. Arora, Lucretia’s Many Bodies Through the Ages, Art & Object (Dec. 15, 2022), https://www.artandobject.com/news/lucretias-many-bodies-through-ages [https://per‌ma.cc/BS2X-LKTW] (discussing various artistic depictions of Lucretia). ↑
6.  Mary O’Neill, Artemisia’s Moment, Smithsonian Mag. (May 2002), https://www.smithso‌nianmag.com/arts-culture/artemisias-moment-62150147/ [https://perma.cc/H6B8-GQRV]. ↑
7.  Joseph Wm. Slap, Artemisia Gentileschi: Further Notes, 42 Am. Imago 335, 337 (1985). ↑
8.  O’Neill, supra note 6. ↑
9.  Elizabeth S. Cohen, The Trials of Artemisia Gentileschi: A Rape as History, 31 Sixteenth Century
   

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   47, 49 (2000). This does not mean, however, that it was a trial in the sense with which we would be familiar today. Rather, “[t]he trial dragged on through seven months of intermittent interrogations and legal maneuvers. During at least the first six weeks, there continued private negotiations toward a settlement ending in marriage.” Id. ↑

10.  O’Neill, supra note 6. ↑
11.  Slap, supra note 7, at 337 (quoting Rudolf Wittkower & Margot Wittkower, Born Under Saturn: The Character and Conduct of Artists 162 (1963)). ↑
12.  Jonathan R.T. Davidson, Dana C. Hughes, Linda K. George & Dan G. Blazer, The Association of Sexual Assault and Attempted Suicide Within the Community, 53 Archives Gen. Psychiatry 550, 550 (1996). ↑
13.  Dean G. Kilpatrick, Christine N. Edmunds & Anne Seymour, Nat’l Victim Ctr. & Crime Victims Rsch. & Treatment Ctr., Rape in America: A Report to the Nation 7 (1992). ↑
14.  See Sexual Assault Kit Initiative & RTI Int’l, “Next-Level” Compulsion of Victim Testimony in Crimes of Sexual Violence Against Adults: Prosecutorial Considerations Before Using Bench Warrants/Body Attachments and Material Witness Warrants 2–3 (2022), https://sakitta.org/toolkit/docs/14451SAKINextLevelComplsnVctmTstmny.pdf [https://perm‌a.cc/T5ZT-Z8JR] (discussing the challenges victims of sexual assault may face if held in contempt for not complying with an order to testify). ↑
15.  See infra Part II. ↑
16.  Maybell Romero, “Ruined,” 111 Geo. L.J. 237 (2022). ↑
17.  See generally id. (arguing that a judge’s pronouncement of a victim as “ruined” is stigmatizing and perpetuates myths about victimhood). ↑
18.  See Robert M. Cover, Violence and the Word, 95 Yale L.J. 1601, 1614 (1986). ↑
19.  Id. at 1613. ↑
20.  When using the word “ineffective,” I mean it in a much more general sense, rather than as a specific reference to ineffective assistance of counsel as discussed in Strickland v. Washington, 466 U.S. 668 (1984), and its progeny. ↑
21.  Carol Felsenthal, Kim Foxx Wants to Tell You a Story, Chi. Mag. (Dec. 10, 2018, 12:22 PM), https://www.chicagomag.com/chicago-magazine/january-2019/kim-foxx-wants-t‌o-tell-you-a-story/ [https://perma.cc/ZGE7-JDKH]. ↑
22.  Carol Thompson & Dorothy Tucker, Kim Foxx Calls Findings Showing as Many as 1 in 3 Black Women in 2022 Were Victims of Crime “Jarring,” CBS News (Dec. 4, 2023, 10:27 PM), https://www.cbsnews.com/chicago/news/kimberly-foxx-findings-black-women-c‌rime-jarring/ [https://perma.cc/V25P-JVH2]. ↑
23.  Martha Albertson Fineman, Introduction: Feminist and Queer Legal Theory, in Feminist and Queer Legal Theory: Intimate Encounters, Uncomfortable Conversations 1, 1 (Martha Albertson Fineman, Jack E. Jackson & Adam P. Romero eds., 2009). ↑

24.  Jeannie Suk Gersen, The Trouble with Teaching Rape Law, New Yorker (Dec. 15, 2014), https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/trouble-teaching-rape-law. ↑